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It seems that people are very willing to flout these maxims in order to create a facade, like trying to get you to join the program. But once you're in, it's like you have a closer relationship with this person and they can tell you the things they wouldn't have told you otherwise. I do this all the time at work...I pretend to be really happy about my job when I have customers who aren't familiar, but when the repeat customers come around, I feel like I actually tell them things honestly, such as saying, "I am so ready to get out of here" when they ask how the day has been.
Great observation. This is somewhat puzzling but I guess it has something to do with the way society works in general. People will often be nice and polite to someones face and then rail them with disparaging comments once they are out of earshot. I suspect that most are just trying to avoid confrontation but to me it is just plainly being dishonest about one's true feelings.

I agree that we flout these maxims all the time. Sometimes I feel it is good to do it, such as using a euphamism to avoid being too blunt. Other times I think it's better to come out and be completely honest, such as when you're describing the professors since they can either make or break a class/department.

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